UPDATE: As the war in Ukraine intensifies, families like Evgenia Natsevych’s find refuge in Connecticut, reshaping their lives amid ongoing conflict. Evgenia, her husband Vitalii, and their three daughters are among the 120,000 Ukrainians who arrived in the U.S. through the Uniting for Ukraine (U4U) program, now facing an uncertain future as the program is paused indefinitely.
On a rainy March day, Evgenia took her daughter Angelina to a dentist in New Haven, reflecting on their journey since fleeing Odesa in October 2022. “I want her to see the ocean,” Evgenia shared, pointing to Long Island Sound. After months of war and uncertainty, they finally accessed healthcare through Connecticut’s Medicaid program.
The family’s story exemplifies the plight of many Ukrainians caught in the conflict. Evgenia and her family were forced to leave their home just hours after the Russian invasion began on February 24, 2022. She vividly recalls the moment a missile flew past their window, prompting a frantic escape. “I had one hour to pack everything,” she said, taking only essential items.
Separated from family in Ukraine, Evgenia’s mother and stepbrother are in Germany while her father remained in Ukraine to care for his ill wife. The ongoing war has split families and shattered lives, with many Ukrainians like Evgenia grappling with the loss of home and stability.
Evgenia’s family initially sought safety in northern Ukraine but soon found themselves near the Kyiv battle lines. After enduring missile strikes and bombings, Evgenia made the difficult decision to escape to Germany with her daughters. Eventually, they connected with a supportive community in the U.S.
Arriving in Arkansas in October 2022, the family faced language barriers and the challenge of starting anew. Vitalii found work as a tire changer, and Evgenia took on various jobs to support her family. Their journey continued as they moved to Florida, hoping for a return to Ukraine, but the war’s escalation forced them to reconsider.
In February 2024, after securing a job in Connecticut, the family relocated to New Haven, where they began to rebuild their lives. “Connecticut saved me,” Evgenia stated, expressing gratitude for the support services that helped them navigate their new environment.
As they settled into their new home, Evgenia’s daughters began to thrive. Angelina, now 7, is learning English and adapting to her new life. Evgenia has taken an active role in the local Ukrainian community, organizing events and sharing her culture with others.
Despite the joy of new beginnings, the shadow of war looms large. Evgenia and her family remain connected to their homeland, following news of ongoing attacks and the suffering of those left behind. “I miss home,” she admits. “Every bomb, every house… I cried all the time.”
With the future uncertain for many Ukrainians, Evgenia’s story highlights the resilience of families seeking safety and community in the face of adversity. The pause on the U4U program leaves many in limbo, but Evgenia continues to advocate for support and unity among the Ukrainian diaspora.
As the situation develops, families like the Natsevychs embody hope and strength amidst turmoil. Their journey reflects the realities of war, migration, and the enduring quest for peace and stability in a world marked by conflict.
