Lila Harmsen, a prominent advocate in the pro-life movement, passed away on July 31, 2023, leaving behind a legacy of compassion and unwavering dedication. Known for her impactful work in various cities, including Fargo, Jamestown, and Grand Forks, Harmsen spent decades fighting for the rights of the unborn and providing support to expectant mothers.
Harmsen’s commitment to pro-life advocacy began at an early age when she learned about abortion. The news profoundly affected her, and she dedicated her life to spreading love and support to prevent others from experiencing similar pain. In her late 70s, Harmsen had become a well-respected figure in the pro-life community, often described as a kind, grandmotherly presence who drew in those feeling vulnerable or scared.
Her efforts were not limited to activism; Harmsen also engaged in jail ministry in her hometown of Valley City. Her ability to connect with individuals in distress turned her into a formidable advocate. “When Lila spoke, all of hell trembled,” noted a fellow pro-life advocate, reflecting on her profound impact.
In an interview conducted in March 2022, Harmsen expressed her belief that every child is a precious gift. She poignantly remarked, “I just want everyone to realize that, when you leave here, your baby’s gone. You can’t come back for your baby next week. It’s over. It’s a very decisive thing.” This statement highlights the deep regret many experience after choosing abortion, a sentiment echoed by countless individuals she assisted over the years.
Harmsen’s most notable moments included guiding women away from abortion clinics. One such occasion involved her and a colleague jumping into a stranger’s car to direct a woman who had just canceled her appointment to the Women’s Care Center. “I couldn’t do it!” the mother exclaimed, a testament to Harmsen’s ability to offer hope and support in critical moments.
Her work extended beyond advocacy; it involved tangible acts of compassion. Harmsen had the opportunity to hold many babies who had been saved from abortion, sharing in the joy of new life. “My heart breaks when I think of the loss of these children and the pain that the mother will undoubtedly endure when she realizes her baby is gone,” she often shared. Her belief was that God created each child for life, not destruction.
Following her passing, Harmsen’s legacy continues to resonate within the community. Reports indicate that some abortion escorts celebrated her death; however, her supporters emphasize that her influence will persist. “The love Lila poured into the sidewalk will grow in her absence,” said a close associate, highlighting the enduring impact of her work.
In reflecting on her life, many have echoed the words of St. Paul: “Well done, good and faithful servant.” Lila Harmsen’s dedication to the pro-life cause and her compassionate spirit will be deeply missed, but her legacy will continue to inspire others in the movement.
