October is marked as **Domestic Violence Awareness Month**, a time dedicated to reflecting on the realities faced by survivors of domestic violence. For one local advocate, this month holds particular significance as their personal and professional journey has come full circle. Having previously worked with the **Vista Rise Collective** in South Lake Tahoe, they transitioned into law enforcement and have now returned to advocacy in a new capacity.
The advocate, who has served the South Lake Tahoe community for over **11 years**, initially engaged with survivors through the Vista Rise Collective, formerly known as Live Violence Free. This experience offered a firsthand view of the courage displayed by survivors and the intricate dynamics of domestic violence, child abuse, and sexual assault. Witnessing individuals strive to reclaim their lives underscored the importance of advocacy and the necessity for safe spaces in close-knit communities.
After joining law enforcement, the advocate gained a different perspective on domestic violence. They encountered victims during the most challenging moments, often when fear overshadowed hope. Their role revealed how domestic violence does not only affect individuals; it also impacts families and the community at large. This led to a profound understanding of the need for collaboration among police, advocates, counselors, and courts, as no single agency can effectively address the issue alone.
As their law enforcement career progressed, the advocate grappled with pressing questions that lingered beyond their shifts. What support exists for survivors after the police depart? How can healing be facilitated for survivors and their families? These inquiries inspired the advocate to return to the Vista Rise Collective after retiring from active service, taking on the role of **Clinical Intern** while pursuing a **master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy**.
In this new role, the advocate focuses on the long-term journey of healing. Rather than responding to crises in real-time, they now sit alongside survivors and their families as they process trauma and work towards healthier relationships. The resilience of these individuals continues to inspire them, as survivors are not merely existing but actively engaging in life—raising children, pursuing education, and contributing to their communities.
This October, the advocate emphasizes the importance of community awareness regarding domestic violence, stating, “Domestic violence is not a private issue; it is a public one. It lives among us—in homes, workplaces, and schools.” They call for collective vigilance and support, urging individuals to “see something, say something” and to also “hear something, believe them.” It is crucial for survivors to feel heard and supported by those around them, whether they are friends, counselors, or law enforcement officers.
The advocate’s hope is for South Lake Tahoe to continue leading with compassion. They stress that domestic violence can affect anyone, irrespective of age, gender, or background, and that it thrives in silence. Community engagement—whether through supporting local organizations like the Vista Rise Collective, learning about healthy relationships, or simply reaching out to a friend—plays a vital role in combating this pervasive issue.
Having worn various hats within the community, from advocate to officer and now therapist-in-training, the advocate recognizes that while the work is challenging, it is ultimately rewarding. They assert that every survivor deserves not just safety but also healing, dignity, and hope as they navigate their paths towards recovery.
