In a heartfelt reflection, Amish mother and writer Gloria Yoder shares her thoughts on self-acceptance and the passage of time. In her latest piece, she emphasizes the significance of embracing one’s unique design, a theme that resonates deeply with those navigating the pressures of societal expectations.
Yoder recalls a moment from her teenage years when a friend expressed complete contentment with her appearance, stating, “Nothing. I am content with the way God made me.” This sentiment struck a chord with Yoder, who admits to grappling with feelings of inadequacy during her youth. She reflects on the countless individuals who strive for external validation, evidenced by the substantial financial investments made each year in beauty products and cosmetic procedures.
As she transitioned into her thirties, Yoder found herself contemplating the meaning of beauty and character. She wonders whether these qualities are defined by societal standards or if they stem from a deeper, more intrinsic acceptance of oneself. “What happens when we push ourselves into a mold of who we would like to be?” she asks, pondering the futility of pursuing an ideal that may never be reached.
Yoder emphasizes that the love and acceptance from family and friends are far more valuable than fleeting beauty. She states, “Whether or not your peers accept you for who you are, there is a God in heaven who tenderly loves all his own.” This belief fosters a sense of security that transcends superficial appearances.
In a touching anecdote, Yoder highlights the example set by her friend Michelle, who encourages her son to pray with his baseball team before games. This act of faith exemplifies the kind of authenticity Yoder aspires to embody, demonstrating a commitment to living in accordance with one’s values.
The passage of time is a central theme in Yoder’s narrative. She reflects on how her friendships have evolved, with many now juggling the demands of parenthood. As she observes physical changes among her peers, she embraces the wisdom that comes with age. “Bring on the years, bring on the unchangeables,” she declares, suggesting that these experiences contribute to a richer, more profound existence.
To share a tangible piece of her life, Yoder concludes with a simple recipe for a healthy treat that her family enjoys. This recipe for chocolate-covered peanut butter bars highlights the balance between nourishing oneself and indulging in life’s pleasures.
Healthy Sweet Treat
– 1/2 cup creamy peanut butter
– 3 tablespoons honey
– 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
Mix well, then stir in:
– 4 rice cakes, broken into pieces
– 1/4 cup salted peanuts, chopped
Combine until mixed, then spread in a nine-by-nine-inch container. Melt together:
– 1/2 cup chocolate chips or melts
– 2 tablespoons coconut oil
Spread the chocolate over the peanut mixture and freeze for 2-3 hours until set. Cut into eight bars and store in the fridge or freezer for a delightful snack.
Through her reflections, Yoder encourages readers to appreciate their individuality while recognizing the beauty found in imperfections. Her message resonates beyond the Amish community, inviting all to embrace their unique journeys and the lessons learned along the way.
Gloria Yoder resides in Flat Rock, Illinois, and can be contacted via mail at The Amish Cook, Box 157, Middletown, Ohio 45042.
