Harry A. Spivak, a prominent figure in the hospitality and music industries, died on December 31, 2023, at the age of 66. He passed away from natural causes after a brief illness, leaving behind a legacy as a skilled caterer and a vital connector in Philadelphia’s vibrant event scene.
Throughout his career, Spivak earned a reputation for his expertise in catering, event production, and consulting. He was known for his ability to solve logistical challenges and ensure the seamless execution of events. As his brother, Jon Spivak, noted, “He had what I call ‘a Rolodex brain.’ That was his true genius.” This innate talent for connecting people made him an invaluable asset in the hospitality sector.
Spivak was the eldest of five children born to Joseph “Jerry” and Sally Spivak. Growing up in a family deeply rooted in hospitality and music, he worked alongside his brothers at the family’s business ventures. One of these was a pioneering music venue that later evolved into the major concert promotions company, Live Nation. In 1985, he co-founded Max & Me Catering with Jon and their cousin Adam Spivak after graduating from the University of Colorado in Boulder.
After spending eight years in the San Francisco Bay Area, Spivak returned to the Philadelphia region to raise his daughter, Katie. He was well-regarded for his unique blend of business acumen and personal warmth. Friends described him as someone who could effortlessly shift from discussing event logistics to nurturing relationships.
Spivak’s connection to the entertainment industry was further highlighted by his friendship with actor and musician Kevin Bacon, who described him as a “kind, gentle, big-hearted man.” The two families grew close when the Spivaks moved to Van Pelt Street in 1967, just around the corner from Bacon’s home. Spivak’s knack for fostering connections even led to a pivotal moment in music history when he suggested that Bacon and his brother Michael perform together.
In addition to his professional accomplishments, Spivak was known for his role as the family historian, often recalling intricate details about relatives and their connections. “Anyone in the family could call him and say, ‘I just met someone named Susan — how are we related?’” Jon Spivak shared. “Harry would immediately say, ‘She’s your grandfather’s third sister’s daughter’s kid.’”
Spivak thrived in dynamic environments, tackling challenges head-on and ensuring that everyone involved had what they needed to succeed. Jon Spivak described him as a “jack of all trades,” someone who brought joy and professionalism to every endeavor.
Among his notable achievements, Spivak played a key role during the Republican National Convention in Philadelphia in 2000. He was instrumental in managing catering logistics for a whistle-stop tour on the Bush-Cheney campaign train, overseeing an extensive inventory of beverages for various groups including the media and Secret Service agents.
Outside of work, Spivak was affectionately known as the “fun uncle” to his nieces and nephews, often treating them to ice cream and encouraging a sense of adventure. His brother remarked, “What I’ll remember most is his love of fun. He didn’t take life too seriously.”
During the COVID-19 pandemic, Spivak shifted his focus to advocacy, working tirelessly to feed homeless individuals and direct resources to those most affected by the crisis. “He did his own thing. People loved him because he had a huge heart and would do anything for anybody,” Jon Spivak stated.
In addition to his daughter and brother, Harry Spivak is survived by his siblings, Jenny, Betsy, and Josh, along with numerous cousins, nieces, and nephews. A celebration of his life is scheduled for January 25, 2024, at 1 p.m. at Underground Arts, located at 1200 Callowhill Street in Philadelphia.
Memorial contributions can be made in his name to local charities dedicated to feeding the homeless, reflecting the spirit of generosity he embodied throughout his life.
